有一种说法是“性格决定命运”。前几年关于这样的说法简直数不胜数，但是一直以来我都对这句话存有怀疑。命运和性格是相互影响的，童年时期的命运对性格的形成影响至深，却偏偏是我们无法把控的。
There is a saying that "character decides fate". In the past few years, there have been countless statements about this, but I have always doubted that. Fate and character influence each other. The fate of childhood has a profound influence on the formation of character, but it is beyond our control.
今天接受了BPD4测试，这是有关人格障碍的筛查量表。我自认在回答问题时是客观的。结果显示，我在偏执型、分裂型、边缘型、回避型、抑郁型的得分都呈现阳性，还有反社会型的倾向。这样一份筛查量表无疑不能确定我的人格缺陷，但它让我思考了性格和命运之间的关系。
Today I took the bpd4 test, a screening scale for personality disorders. I consider myself objective in answering questions. The results showed that I had positive scores in paranoid, schizoid, marginal, avoidant and depressive types, as well as antisocial tendencies. Such a screening scale certainly can't confirm my personality defect, but it makes me think about the relationship between character and destiny.
回想在我的成长过程中遭遇的某些事件，性格的原因可能无法忽视。因为我不愿意放弃自己追求的`理念，不愿意随波逐流屈从于别人，我与家庭产生了巨大的矛盾。因为我习惯隔绝于社会，不热衷人际交往，几乎总是单独行动，我失去了结交亲密朋友的机会，很难与他人建立亲密关系。
Looking back on some of the events I encountered in my growth, the reasons for my character may not be ignored. Because I don't want to give up the idea that I pursue, and I don't want to go with the flow and submit to others, I have a huge contradiction with my family. Because I am used to being isolated from the society, not keen on interpersonal communication, and almost always acting alone, I lost the opportunity to make close friends, and it is difficult to establish close relations with others.
可是，如果说性格决定命运，那是决定了性格的，又是什么呢？自我性格中一些根深蒂固的东西，又如何不是命运的产物呢？我从出生的家庭得不到多少关爱，成长环境中长期被欺凌，又怎么可能会用温柔的心去拥抱这个世界。我曾经对人温暖热情，换来的却是欺骗和冷漠，我又怎样对世界报以善意，怎样抹消那些“反社会”的念头。
However, if character determines fate, it determines character. What is it? How can something deeply rooted in one's personality not be the product of fate? I don't get much care from the family I was born with. How could I embrace the world with a gentle heart when I was bullied in my growing environment for a long time. I used to be warm and warm to people, but in exchange for deception and indifference, how can I repay the world with kindness, and how can I erase those "antisocial" ideas.
改变性格中感觉不好的一些方面，虽是必要的，却又何其艰难。“江山易改，本性难移”，仅仅是想去调整性格中的某些方面，都已经让人感觉无从下手、力不从心，因为我们极难跳出自我，我们的一举一动都被性格局限着。
Although it is necessary to change some aspects of bad feeling in character, it is not so difficult. "Easy to change, hard to change", just want to adjust some aspects of the character, have made people feel helpless, powerless, because we are extremely difficult to jump out of ourselves, our every move is limited by the character.
在一个人的生命中，性格和命运随着一生的际遇相互交织，共鸣共振。尽管我想要去改变，一切却已经早已根植在心里。
In one's life, character and destiny interweave with each other and resonate with each other. Although I want to change, everything has already been rooted in my heart.
周书·冏命
作者：佚名
王若曰：“伯冏!惟予弗克于德，嗣先人宅丕后。怵惕惟厉，中夜以兴，思免厥愆。昔在文、武，聪明齐圣，小大之臣，咸怀忠良。其侍御朴从，罔匪正人，以旦夕承弼厥辟，出入起居，罔有不钦，发号施令，罔有不臧，下民祗若，万邦咸休。惟予一人无良，实赖左右前后有位之士，匡其不及。绳愆纠谬，格其非心，俾克绍先烈。今予命汝作大正，正于群仆侍御之臣，懋乃后德，交修不逮;慎简乃僚，无以巧言令色，便辟侧媚，其惟吉士。仆臣正，厥后克正，仆臣谀，厥后自圣;后德惟臣，不德惟臣。尔无昵于憸人，充耳目之官，迪上以非先王之典;非人其吉，惟货其吉;若时瘝厥官;惟尔大弗克只厥辟，惟予汝辜。”
王曰：“呜呼!钦哉!永弼乃后于彝宪。”
文言文翻译:
穆王这样说：“伯冏!我不优于道德。继承先人处在大君的位置，戒惧会有危险，甚至半夜起来，想法子避免过失。
“从前在文王、武王的时候，他们聪明、通达、圣明，小臣大臣都怀着忠良之心。他们的侍御近臣，没有人不是正人，用他们早晚侍奉辅佐他们的君主，所以君主出入起居，没有不敬慎的事;发号施令，也没有不好的。百姓敬重顺从君主的命令，天下万国也都喜欢。
“我没有好的德行，实在要依赖左右前后的官员，匡正我的不到之处。纠正过错，端正我不正确的思想，使我能够继承先王的功业。
“今天我任命你作太仆长，领导群仆、侍御的臣子。你们要勉励你们的君主增修德行，共同医治我不够的地方。你要慎重选择你的部属，不要任用巧言令色、阿谀奉承的`人，要都是贤良正士。仆侍近臣都正，他们的君主才能正;仆待近臣谄媚，他们的君主就会自以为圣明。君主有德，由于臣下，君主失德，也由于臣下。你不要亲近小人，充当我的视听之官，不要引导君上违背先王之法。如果不以贤人最善，只以货财最善，象这样，就会败坏我们的官职，就是你大大地不能敬重你的君主;我将惩罚你。”
穆王说：“啊!要认真呀!要长久用常法辅助你的君主。”
名言警句翻译成中文1
一、 关于友谊的格言
1. A life without a friend is a life without a sun.
人生在世无朋友，犹如生活无太阳。
2. When a friend asks, there is no tomorrow.
朋友的要求不要拖。
3. Between friends all is common.
朋友之间不分彼此。
4. Friendship cannot stand always on one side.
来而不往非礼也。
5. Friendship multiplies joys and divides grieves.
友谊可以增添欢乐，可以分担忧愁。
6. Friendship——one soul in two bodies.
友谊是两人一条心。
7. Everyone hears what you say, friends listen to what you say and real friends listen to what you don’t say.
每个人都能听到你说的东西;好朋友会去聆听你说的东西;真正的朋友会去听你不说的东西。
8. A real friend should have a listening ear, a warming shoulder, a helping hand and most sincere words whenever you are in need.
真正的朋友应该是无论你什么时候有需要，他/她都能去倾听你的诉说，给你依靠，帮助你并给你最真诚的意见和建议。
二、 关于梦想/雄心的格言
1. Where there is life, there is hope.
有生命就有希望/留得青山在，不怕没柴烧。
2. Wisdom in the mind is better than money in the hand.
脑中有知识，胜过手中有金钱。
3. Storms make trees take deeper roots.
风暴使树木深深扎根。
4. Nothing is impossible for a willing heart.
心之所愿，无所不成。
5. The shortest answer is doing.
最简单的回答就是干。
6. All things are difficult before they are easy.
凡事必先难后易。
7. Great hopes make great man.
伟大的理想造就伟大的人。
8. A bold attempt is half success.
勇敢的尝试是成功的一半。
9. Shooting for the moon, even if you miss, you will land yourself among stars.
要射就射月亮，就算错过，你也能降落在繁星中。(要有雄心)
10. A ship is safe in the harbour, but that’s not what ships are built for.
船泊港湾固然安全，但那不是造船的初衷。
11. Living without an aim is like sailing without a compass. Alexander Dumas (Davy de La Pailleterie, French Writer)
生活没有目标就像航海没有指南针。(法国作家 大仲马. A.)
三、 关于坚持、不畏艰险的格言
1. The man who has made up his mind to win will never say "impossible". (Bonaparte Napoleon, French emperor)
凡是决心取得胜利的人是从来不说“不可能的”。(法国皇帝 拿破仑)
2. Do not, for one repulse, give up the purpose that you resolved to effect. (William Shakespeare , British dramatist)
不要只因一次失败，就放弃你原来决心想达到的目的。(英国剧作家 莎士比亚)
3. The only limit to our realization of tomorrow will be our doubts of today. (Franklin Roosevelt , American president)
实现明天理想的唯一障碍是今天的疑虑。(美国总统 罗斯福.)
4. Genius only means hard-working all one's life. (Mendeleyer, Russian Chemist)
天才只意味着终身不懈的努力。(俄国化学家 门捷列耶夫)
5. Success covers a multitude of blunders. (George Bernard Shaw, British Dramatist)
成功由大量的失望铸就。(英国剧作家 肖伯纳)
6. Our greatest weakness is giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time.
放弃是我们最大的弱点。成功的方法只不过是失败之后再尝试一次。
7. Nothing in the world is difficult for one who sets his mind on it.
世上无难事，只怕有心人。
名言警句翻译成中文2
1· All things in their being are good for something 天生我才必有用。
2· Difficult circumstances serve as a textbook of life for people 困难坎坷是人们的生活教科书。
3· Failure is the mother of success - Thomas Paine失败乃成功之母。
4· For man is man and master of his fate人就是人，是自己命运的主人。
5· The unexamined life is not worth living -- Socrates混混噩噩的生活不值得过。--苏格拉底
6· None is of freedom or of life deserving unless he daily conquers it anew 只有每天再度战胜生活并夺取自由的人，才配享受生活的自由。
7· Our destiny offers not the cup of despair, but the chalice of opportunity So let us seize it, not in fear, but in gladness -- RM Nixon· 命运给予我们的不是失望之酒，而是机会之杯。因此，让我们毫无畏惧，满心愉悦地把握命运 尼克松
8· Living without an aim is like sailing without a compass -- John Ruskin生活没有目标，犹如航海没有罗盘。-- 罗斯金
9· What makes life dreary is the want of motive -- George Eliot·没有了目的，生活便郁闷无光。 -- 乔治 · 埃略特
10· Towering genius disdains a beaten path It seeks regions hitherto unexplored-- Lincoln· 卓越的天才不屑走旁人走过的路。他寻找迄今未开拓的地区。
11· There is no such thing as a great talent without great will - power -- Balzac· 没有伟大的.意志力，便没有雄才大略。 -- 巴尔扎克
12· The good seaman is known in bad weather惊涛骇浪，方显英雄本色。
13· Fear not that the life shall come to an end, but rather fear that it shall never have a
beginning --JH Newman· 不要害怕你的生活将要结束，应该担心你的生活永远不会真正开始。 -- 纽曼
14· Gods determine what you're going to be -- Julius Erving· 人生的奋斗目标决定你将成为怎样的人。-- 欧文
15· An aim in life is the only fortune worth finding -- Robert Louis Stevenson· 生活的目标，是唯一值得寻找的财富。-- 史蒂文森
16· While there is life there is hope一息若存，希望不灭。-- 英国谚语
17· Try not to become a man of success but rather try to become a man of value -- A Einstein· 不要为成功而努力，要为做一个有价值的人而努力。 -- 爱因斯坦
18· You have to believe in yourself That's the secret of success -- Charles Chaplin· 人必须有自信，这是成功的秘密。 -- 卓别林
19· Pursue your object, be it what it will, steadily and indefatigably不管追求什么目标，都应坚持不懈。
20· We must accept finite disappointment, but we must never lose infinite hope -- Mattin Luther King· 我们必须接受失望，因为它是有限的，但千万不可失去希望，因为它是无穷的。-- 马丁 · 路德 · 金
21· Energy and persistence conquer all things -- Benjamin Franklin· 能量加毅力可以征服一切。 -- 富兰克林
22· Nothing seek, nothing find· 无所求则无所获。
23· Cease to struggle and you cease to live -- Thomas Carlyle· 生命不止，奋斗不息。 -- 卡莱尔
24· A thousand-li journey is started by taking the first step · 千里之行，始于足下。 25· Strength alone knows conflict, weakness is below even defeat, and is born
vanquished · 只有强者才懂得斗争；弱者甚至失败都不够资格，而是生来就是被征服的。
26· The people who get on in this world are the people who get up and look for circumstances they want, and if they cannot find them, make them -- Bernara Shaw· 在这个世界上取得成就的人，都努力去寻找他们想要的机会，如果找不到机会，他们便自己创造机会。 -- 萧伯纳
27· A strong man will struggle with the storms of fate -- Thomas Addison· 强者能同命运的风暴抗争。 --
28· He who seize the right moment, is the right man -- Goethe 谁把握机遇，谁就心想事成。-- 歌德
29· Victory won't come to me unless I go to it -- MMoore· 胜利是不会向我们走来的，我必须自己走向胜利。 -- 穆尔
30· Man struggles upwards; water flows downwards· 人往高处走，水往低处流。 31· Man errs as long as he strives -- Goethe· 失误是进取的代价。 -- 歌德
32· The failures and reverses which await men - and one after another sadden the brow of youth - add a dignity to the prospect of human life, which no Arcadian success would do · 尽管失败和挫折等待着人们，一次次地夺走青春的容颜，但却给人生的前景增添了一份尊严，这是任何顺利的成功都不能做到的
33· A man can fail many times, but he isn't a failure until he begins to blame somebody else · 一个人可以失败很多次，但是只要他没有开始责怪旁人，他还不是一个失败者。 -- 巴勒斯
34· Histories make men wise; poems witty; the mathematics subtle; natural philosophy deep; moral grave; logic and rhetoric able to contend (Francis Bacon ,
British philosopher )历史使人明智；诗词使人灵秀；数学使人周密；自然哲学使人深刻；伦理使人庄重；逻辑修辞学使人善辨。( 英国哲学家 培根)
35· The time of life is short; to spend that shortness basely, it would be too long (William Shakespeare)人生苦短，若虚度年华，则短暂的人生就太长了。(英国剧作家 莎士比亚 )
36.We cannot always build the future for our youth, but we can build our youth for the future (Franklin Roosevelt , American president )我们不能总是为我们的青年造就美好未来，但我们能够为未来造就我们的青年一代。 (美国总统 罗斯福 F)
37.Goals determine what you’re going to be 人生的奋斗目标决定你将来成为怎样的人。
38.Where there is a will, there is a way 有志者，事竟成。
39.Well begun is half done 好的开端是成功的一半。
40.All roads lead to Rome 条条大路通罗马。
41.Art is long, but life is short 人生有限，学问无涯。
42.Stick to it, and you‘ll succeed 只要人有恒，万事都能成。
43.Let‘s cross the bridge when we come to it 船到桥头自然直。
44.Nothing is difficult to the man who will try 世上无难事，只要肯登攀。
45.An idle youth, a needy age 少壮不努力，老大徒伤悲。
46.Diligence is the mother of success 勤奋是成功之母。
47.Easier said than done 说起来容易做起来难。
48.Action speak louder than words 事实胜于雄辩。
49.Two heads are better than one 三个臭皮匠顶个诸葛亮。
50.Nothing is impossible to a willing mind 世上无难事，只怕有心人。
